Showing posts with label golden rule. Show all posts
Showing posts with label golden rule. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 02, 2014

Love Your Way Out of Anything.



There is no cause-effect.

Meaning that all "Science" is built on a lie.

Yes, I'm even a bit surprised to realize this after years with this data to hand.

  1. The lowest common philosophic denominator discovered so far is the Huna principle. "The World Is What You Think It Is." Or, rephrased,  "You Get What You Create."
  2. This means you create the cause and you create the effect.  Go back to "The Secret" DVD and listen to those quantum physicists again. They found that they'd find whatever they were looking for. If they changed the goal of the experiment, they'd change the result - even if the experiment was run exactly the same way.
  3. You get the effect you want (or that you resist.)
  4. There is no actual cause and effect. There is apparent cause and effect, but you have to agree with the outcome before you can experience it.
  5. So if you aren't experiencing the result you "wanted" - then you simply have to change your mind.


The core book to study in this area would then be "Magic of Believing" by Claude M. Bristol.

If you chased this back further, you'd find that you have to "love" your way out of any problem you are having. Because Love is the actual universal solvent.

Shades of Jesus' "Love your neighbor as yourself." Which of course goes back to the Golden Rule - which in turn shows up in the second Huna principle, "There Are No Limits." (Or - "We Are All Connected."

Without Cause and Effect, there is really only Responsibility for Condition. Whatever you are experiencing is, bluntly, your own damned fault.

All my venting about critical people still has valid advice to keep them at least a barge-pole's distance - but - if you are feeling anything except a calm, cheerful expectancy...

Changing your mind requires being completely responsible for your own condition - as well as everyone else's. Nobody caused your emotional reaction except yourself. Get over it. Start loving them back.

And yes, now metaphysics trumps any hard science out there. Thanks to quantum mechanics.

Means we should really study some puppy-dogs to see how to improve our ability to share unconditional love.

Read this a few times through for yourself. See if it doesn't make some major shifts.

Monday, February 10, 2014

How to Be Constantly Happy - Surround Yourself With Love

How to be Constantly Happy - Surround Yourself With Love
(photocredit: kurichan+)

What if you loved everything around you unconditionally? How would your life improve?

Have to appreciate these lessons which come in from the blue.

I was standing and looking out our southern window, cozy by the woodstove in our single-digit mornings, and realizing that I loved living and working on our farm.  And the next thought was: what if everything was like this?

Contrasted with this is a former work (J.O.B. - Just Over Broke) relationship I'm in the middle of discontinuing with a guy who has been an unwitting jerk - simply because of his upbringing. He can't say anything without getting in a critical remark somehow. Sad, but commonplace. (It's easy to even find people who amuse themselves solely by finding ways to criticize others - TV comedy is built on this - compare to Mark Twain, Will Rogers, and Shakespeare; you'll see a marked difference.)

You can't live a peaceful life when someone is always rebutting what you say, or trying to belittle or tear someone else down when you talk to them. So I've moved on, found other work which paid better (publishing books) and have my own financial freedom well in hand.

Of course, the echo's of working with him still remain. Some shrinks say it might take as long as 12 years before such echoes erase themselves. (As in what cults do.)

Releasing is the secret that these psych's don't know - that and Silva active meditation. (See "Freedom Is", if I've lost you already.)

Anyway - the end of "The Secret" DVD had Rhonda Byrne on the beach scratching "Feel Good" into the sand. That is the moral to the story that film told.

The more you feel good, the more good things come to you. (Law of Attraction, Golden Rule, that sort of thing.)

But what if you loved everything around you? Take it one step further...

Love is a feeling, which is a perception, not an emotion. Love isn't projected, but is sensed. True, as you create the world around you with your thoughts ("We become what we think about", "The World is What You Think It Is") - you are creating your feelings as well. But it's a much finer concept, and seems much harder to master than simply "controlling" your emotions (which is by simply releasing.)

To reach this finer plane of living, you need to be able to routinely experience the "peace which passes understanding" - and that occurs when you release any fear of Death or losing your Individuality. You can simply "Just Be."

At that point, you could openhandedly love anyone, anything, everyone, everything. And not need love in return - knowing that it would eventually return to you, that what you send out might have some work to do before it could come back to you. Or it would come back to you from a different source. You don't care, actually. You've become "hootless." Your point is to Just Be - and is just a "tetch" beyond Maslow's Self-Transcendence state.

In that state, you are helping everyone around you by the peace you create. (Lester Levenson ran into this - pastors loved to have him in their congregation because the peace he created was contagious.)

Anyway, it's been awhile since I simply practiced that Just Be scene. Been too busying working and trying to accomplish things. Actually, the most effective way to bring something to you is to let it go. Again, this is all through "The Secret" and those old 1920's books on the Law of Attraction. (I was practising being inefficient, I guess. Bringing myself this lesson, among many.)

So try this out for yourself: Simply get the idea of loving everything around you unconditionally. And make it so throughout your day. No penalty for falling from grace, but the prize is a continuing sublime state beyond description.

PS. What do you do with those "unwitting jerks" around you? Ask them to do this impossible task at least 10 times: Say something which has no criticism in it at all. It will probably take some coaching. They have to stay at it until they can say 10 statements which are not critical in the slightest. If any are critical at all, they have to start over. (Of course, you may want to do this on your own before you ask them to. Old habits die hard, they say...)

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Saturday, February 08, 2014

How to Save Your Own Life by "Losing" Friends and Family

Your life is elevated or "ruined" by the friends and family you keep around you.

(photocredit: merwing littledear)

Just too simple. People have chronic mindsets. These are based on their own fears - chiefly the fear of death or lack of individuality.

People around you attempt to get you to act like they do, or as they want you to, in order to fit their idea of what archetype they think you should be to make their life make sense. ("Sense" being where logic and emotion meet to enable action.)

"Archetype" is Jungian, and I only know the term through my narrow study of Joseph Campbell's Monomyth works. The key point is that it fits again into the Huna concept that "we are all connected, there are no limits." People can be analyzed against the archetypes which Campbell laid out in his myth-cycle. People around you fit into archetypes for your world-view, you fit into archetypes for theirs.

The people around you fit your own world-view, as you are attracting those into your life by what you are thinking, emitting, out-flowing. Yes, that's the old "Law of Attraction." Like the Golden Rule - one variation of it.

People work to get others to fit into their world-view as directing players on a stage in their script. The tools they use to this are laid out in "Get Your Self Scam Free." It's Cialdini and Levenson, chiefly the last.

Having that situation (and knowing its happening) isn't bad, overall, but sometimes you can get caught up with a person who is simply holding you back from achieving the bliss you want in your life. Everything they do irritates and even upsets you. (Meanwhile, you are irritating them with your thoughts - see how this works?) Keep thinking about that person and they will show up in your life as an active bit-part player. Every time.

Because the bulk of humanity is here only for entertainment, they will never understand you if you tried to explain this to them. Factually, they'd just criticize and make less of anything you said or say - as that is their view and routine handling of the world around them.

(And it doesn't mean just because they are brilliant geniuses, this doesn't apply. It applies in spades to people with a powerful intellect that has been mistrained. You expect them to be smarter than that, but they act stupidly with all their cleverness. Politicians and celebrities, especially.)

They can't accept themselves, and are critical internally as well as externally. (They are also routinely sick.)

The best action is to quietly move these people off your lines permanently.

Some steps (see more in "Freedom Is"):
1. Release daily as part of your regular meditations. Let go of all incidents where someone else tried to enforce approval, control, security, or belongingness on you.
2. When you can get up to it, release the fear of Death and loss of individuality.
3. Bless them and envision a perfect life for them - separate from you. (A vision of this would be seeing them off on a cruise ship leaving the harbor, or a rocket to a luxury Mars colony.)
4. In your day to day affairs, quietly move all your business off their lines. Block them on your social networks, filter them out of your email.
5. Bless them every single time you think of them. If any thought comes in, go to "alpha" and release, then send them off on a one-way luxury cruise again in your mind. Be at peace.

This is the key. If you want to have peace in your life, you have to out-flow peace in all your thoughts, emotion, and actions. People who are not peaceful, you are constantly critical of you and what you are doing (it's in every single communication you have with this type of people) simply need to be with people who match their mindset. So let them go.

Family is slightly different, as there are some times the meetings you can't get out of.

In all cases, you don't respond to their critical remarks with other than peace. The old saying, "If you can't think of anything nice to say, then say nothing at all." Smile and nod. Be always constructive in everything you say and do. Release constantly as a habit of getting through life.

Another suggestion is to move to a rural community where you can more easily pick and choose who you deal with on a regular basis.

Meanwhile, make sure you are eating only healthy food (as little-prepared/processed as possible) and getting sufficient sleep at night. Eliminate or limit anything which acts as a drug on your system. Excess sugar, caffeine, etc. Get regular exercise into your life. Visit with and in Nature regularly.

There is a book I've got on my stack to re-publish and re-market, which is Christian Larson's "Ideal Made Real." His first chapter "How to Begin" gives you key points on how to effectively move over to peaceful living as a way of life.

What this is doing is to move you to a different chronic mindset of your own. I suggest you get more peaceful in your life deliberately, as abundance will show up around you as you are demonstrating peace to everyone you meet or deal with. Abundance works better with Peace.

Try this for yourself. See if what I've said is true for you. Let me know how it goes...

PS. How do you spot these people? Do you feel more peaceful in their presence, in their communications with you, when you think of them? If not, then they need more blessing and releasing until you can be at peace with them or even viewing an email from them. Meanwhile, limit your contact and always hold peace in your mind - even stopping to go to "alpha" and release. Again, release constantly.
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Friday, January 03, 2014

The Secret, Which Happens After Clearing - Only One Person Knew

There's something left out of  the "Scam Free" book you need to know.


know about transference after clearing - living for others
Clear Lake by MSMcCarthy Photography)
It's the point of living for others.

Maslow found this and called it "Self-Transcendence." It came later than his main hierarchy of needs and is little understood.

HIERARCHY OF NEEDS
ST = Self-Transcendence
Maslow's pyramid - the Hierarchy of Needs

And the people who describe it have trouble with it - because it doesn't follow the laws and means commonly used on the rest of this hard-fought planet.

In that state, people live for everyone else. Their success is your success. This is another clear statement of the Golden Rule again. Which of course goes back to the Huna "There are no limits - we are all connected."

It is what happens when you follow "Freedom Is - (period.)" for your self. Once you become "hootless" about the world as it exists, you start to build the world which might be.

One article says they might even make poor leaders (although they say it needs more study.) Jesus would make a good example of a transcendent leader - you note that the actual organization was left to Paul, his disciples left only Gospels attributed to them (but written hundreds of years after they passed.)

There are other examples of self-transcended individuals, but they are harder to find, as they tend to leave no trace of themselves. No politician has ever or will be transcendent. ("Render unto Caesar...") Most religions are not filled with these. People who found religions are not this way - however close they may become.

The other point you can find, is that people will chose to move in and out of this state in order to get something done or accomplished. Like this writing. The inspiration for it doesn't write the words, but does tend to "sit on my shoulder" and dictate the words.

You go Clear by releasing everything that's valued, and then keep living on this planet in a transcendent state. Anything and everything you need comes to you, and living becomes a complete joy - effortless. Because you are no longer living for yourself, but are living to help others improve their lives.

It's a tough battle, believe me. 99% of the people on this planet only want to be entertained - or so they think. But eventually, everyone here will become self-transcendent. It's just going to take most of them a very, very long time.

What we can do to speed this up is to understand what passes for entertainment, find the systems underneath this, and then produce works which will move people toward that goal. Shakespeare was probably the best at this, although Dickens may have been well along this line, as was Asimov. Any over-prolific author is in this area, simply because that much imagination has to be tapped into regularly, which keeps them in tune with the spiritual.

Shakespeare has all sorts of hidden data in his works, which are quoted as much or more than Aesop. (If you wanted a great project, start translating these into modern English - enlightening, and a great way to learn writing.)

The best explanation of self-transcendence was found in "Personality & Spirituality" blog:
Maslow noticed that many of them frequently have, and deliberately seek, some other kind of experience. Something extraordinary.
Maslow termed these peak experiences. They are profound, life-altering moments of love, understanding, happiness, bliss. They are moments in which one feels radically more whole, more completely alive, more aware of truth, beauty, goodness, and so on.
Self-actualizing people have many such peak experiences and eventually feel inspired to actively seek them, extend them and stabilize them. Hence, Maslow added the goal of self-transcendence as the final level, the capstone of the pyramid. The desire is to go beyond our ordinary human level of consciousness and experience oneness with the greater whole, the higher truth, whatever that may be.

You can see this is also described in the first chapter of Lao Tzu's Tao - "The Way." There are no words to describe or define what occurs there. That entire book is an attempt to do so. (Not too surprising that it's probably a compilation, much like Aesop's fables.)

The approach is to live your life from there on out constantly in a state of Zen, living in the "Zone" continually, going from one Peak Experience to the next.

Everything that happens in your life is an inspiration to yet another revelation.

Those are the four ways of analysis found in Huna, which (like releasing) become an always-on approach to living (subjective, objective, symbolic, holistic).

And there you have it.

Dumped a ton of stuff on you to digest today.

You're welcome.

Again - it really boils down to this:

Just Be.

 

PS. Here's that Scam Free book for your study: 

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Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Evolving Scientology - Part Two

Getting to the basic lies Scientology was built from.

Most of this is common knowledge. But it took studying banned (squirrel) authors to sort it all out.

Please bear with me if you have already been here, done that.

In the early 1950's there were three researchers in the Southwestern U.S. sorting out how to improve humanity. Lester Levenson had a personal revelation which  left him in a very high state of ability - after nearly dying. Jose Silva started with his training in electronics to study the mind and resolve situations in people's lives. Ron Hubbard was putting his following back together after his Dianetics fiasco in Kansas - and was founding Scientology.

The first two of these were working to solve humankind's long-held embedded problems. The last was figuring out how to make money by creating a group of super-humans.

Scientology's main interminable itch is it's core belief that some cat named Xenu put people in volcano's on this planet some 75 million years ago and blew them all up. This gave people body thetans and clusters of them which cause all sorts of problems. This one incident is also the core material for all their secret levels.

And has been out for years, even published in the L.A. Times. (No one ran crazy into the streets from reading it, however.)

Separately, at least one author has documented that Hubbard was experimenting with drugs during this time, quite different from already being known as paranoid-schizophrenic.

As well, it's also been documented that Hubbard was out to make money and forming a church structure was his way around the IRS. (Scientology still has the odd reputation of the only religion approved by the IRS.)

However, that's not the core problem which should have been addressed.

Basic on the chain for a long time appeared to be the fear of death, but is actually the belief that one could lose their individuality. Rather, the older and more workable datum is that we are all interconnected - and that the bulk of our problems come from trying to stay separate.

The more we treat people the way we'd like to be treated, the better everyone gets along and the stresses in our lives fall away - as well as any mentally-instigated illnesses.

That is the bottom line and is something that Hubbard touched on, but ignored as basic. His problem was creating something which could be trademarked and protected as a trade secret so the money would keep coming in.

And corporate Scientology still depends on the 50,000 or so members internationally to finance all their big buildings and fancy celebrations every year. Even though their secret's been out for years.

The bigger secret was hidden in plain site all over the place: the Golden Rule.

There's a bug in the ointment as well - their e-meter can be rendered unworkable the closer you get to clearing yourself with this concept. As you see we are all interconnected, and begin practicing this in your own life, either the meter will cease to register anything as charged (which was the original statement of clearing End Phenomenon) or it will start bringing up other's problems as charged, which will go nowhere.

The recurring End Phenomenon found all through Scientology is to just take responsibility for having created (mocked up) the problem to begin with.

Being responsible for self is the ticket out and is the real way to clear this planet.

- - - -

The advice for Scientologists? Drop your current management completely and let the local organizations manage themselves. They'll either sink or swim. Get the public into the organizations and get their feedback on how they'd like to be treated and then start doing that.

There may or may not be support for these big buildings and higher services.

Up to you do decide.
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Thursday, September 26, 2013

The Acid Test to Anything: Did You Help?

Where Win-Win-Win and Golden Rule Intersect

The Golden Rule by Norman Rockwell at UN

It's not how much money you make, it's how you use that money. It's not the amount of people who will review your book or follow your tweets - it's how much you help them improve their lives.

This universe is actually built from an inter-connected scene. Everything, everyone affects everyone else and everything else. And this is why some version of the "Golden Rule" shows up in every major religion and philosophy on this planet.

Jesus said nothing new when he told people to treat others as you expect to be treated. He was just quoting older sayings in a new version.

Similarly, a current Midwestern phrase is related: "What goes around, comes around."  Just look at it carefully. As you act, so are things acted toward you. As you react, you cause reactions around you. Proactive people live less stressful lives - because they are acting responsibly within their environment.

Napoleon Hill, in his "Think and Grow Rich" had it as: "You have to give before you can get."

This is also the old Steven Covey adage (who was really quoting other sources, again) where he recommended that every action and decision you made should be pointed toward achieving a "win-win-win" outcome. Both you and your customer and everyone involved wins something out of your exchange.

You hear in the "news" about ripoffs and frauds - as if this was common place and involved in every commerce transaction. As usual, they are concentrating on a handful and minority of controversial exchanges. (And by concentrating on the controversial, and chaotic, you'll also see that only a small minority trusts any mainstream media to tell the truth.)

Any small business owner or operator knows that your business continues to survive and get new customers only at the whim of neighborhood goodwill.

Where you do have a scam, they try to get around this concept, but the law (natural law, not man-made) eventually catches up with them and shuts them down. Look up anyone who tried to do this as a regular operation in their own business - they don't exist after a few years.

We are all connected. Those who work to help others constantly and improve the value in their lives will profit in turn. (Profit is just increased value in your own life or business, isn't it?)

In order to get something for yourself, you need to help others achieve it for themselves.

Look at Ray Kroc of MacDonald's fame. He helped an industry expand, serving decent-quality food at decent prices. And made untold millionaires from his suppliers as the result of his "millions sold."

Sam Walton of Wal-Mart helped everyone succeed around him, serving a whole set of people who were underserved by the nationwide chains at the time. By pushing the idea that "you'll sell a lot more for a little less" - he made the entire industry realize that giving greater value to the customer would result in greater profit to the store. Suppliers who built warehouses close to his were able to take advantage of his own "hub-and-spoke" distribution lines - saving them money on shipping - which could be passed on as lower prices - which in turn resulted in greater profits.

Win-win-win.

All based on helping.

So the acid test: Did You Help?
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Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Talking to Yourself Helps



You may find that this Golden Rule can be a bit disturbing.

Because whatever you do comes back to you - some schools say it comes back amplified, as 3 to 10 times as much.

Of course, you can get into karma as an explanation for all the "bad" things which happen around you. Or you can also see that these are all simply opportunities to learn and grow (or to make yourself rich.)

Earl Nightingale was my mentor in this area, with his 1950's hit Gold record, "The Strangest Secret". He had a 30-day program which told you essentially to practice non-critical, positive thought for that time period. And if you slipped up, to simply start over for another 30 days.

What he said you'd wind up with was a "cheerful, expectant attitude" where everything could turn out for good - just to the degree you'd let it.

Now, of course, in these days of news media and politicians who only profit by finding controversy, chaos, and cacaphonous catastrophe - it's really sometimes a stretch to even justify the existence of God. Because they consider their job is to fill your life with these contrasts (so that they continue to have you as viewers and they can sell advertising.)

However, it's really just true that what you say, do, and think about all comes back to you.

So as you are critical, you'll fill your life with incoming criticisms. As you continue to think that conspiracies are running this planet, you will continue to find evidence in your personal life that "they" have tried to "done you in" again.

On the other hand, looking for simple pleasures brings more of these into your life. If you love baking cakes, you'll see more enticing recipes to try out. Drive safely and you'll observe that the vast majority of people around you are doing the same. Be courteous and empathetic and you'll find kind, understanding souls are meeting you at all points of life.

You see, the world is what you make it. Those ancient Polynesians were telling the truth.

Napoleon Hill, then Earl Nightingale, and now Bob Proctor just repeat it with their own versions - set to modern music.

The tune is and always has been the same. Only the details (and today's "special offer") have changed. But that's just a different wrapper on the gift - marketing.

So try this today: talk to everyone you meet just as you'd like to be talked to. If you like to be motivated and inspired, then talk only in motivational and inspirational terms. If you want to be amused or entertained, then make someone laugh or help them pass the time enjoyably.

The more you work to simply help others make their own way through life, the more help and ease will happen in your own life.

Just the way things are set up.

Yes, we are talking about responsibility here, but putting a nice face on it.

Cheers!

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